diff --git a/auditlog/conf.py b/auditlog/conf.py
index b151b24..254ecd0 100644
--- a/auditlog/conf.py
+++ b/auditlog/conf.py
@@ -21,6 +21,11 @@ settings.AUDITLOG_EXCLUDE_TRACKING_FIELDS = getattr(
     settings, "AUDITLOG_EXCLUDE_TRACKING_FIELDS", ()
 )
 
+# Exclude reverse relation fields across all models
+settings.AUDITLOG_EXCLUDE_REVERSE_RELATIONS = getattr(
+    settings, "AUDITLOG_EXCLUDE_REVERSE_RELATIONS", False
+)
+
 # Mask named fields across all models
 settings.AUDITLOG_MASK_TRACKING_FIELDS = getattr(
     settings, "AUDITLOG_MASK_TRACKING_FIELDS", ()
diff --git a/auditlog/diff.py b/auditlog/diff.py
index fc98987..a45c38c 100644
--- a/auditlog/diff.py
+++ b/auditlog/diff.py
@@ -213,6 +213,16 @@ def model_instance_diff(
         fields = set()
         model_fields = None
 
+    # Optionally exclude reverse relations (auto-created fields).
+    # Reverse relations (auto_created & not concrete) can cause unwanted DB hits
+    # and mutate instance._state.fields_cache as a side-effect.
+    # Make this behavior opt-in via AUDITLOG_EXCLUDE_REVERSE_RELATIONS.
+    if settings.AUDITLOG_EXCLUDE_REVERSE_RELATIONS:
+        def is_reverse_field(f):
+            return getattr(f, "auto_created", False) and not getattr(f, "concrete", False)
+
+        fields = {f for f in fields if not is_reverse_field(f)}
+
     if fields_to_check:
         fields = {
             field
diff --git a/docs/source/usage.rst b/docs/source/usage.rst
index 4f9dda6..148a4ac 100644
--- a/docs/source/usage.rst
+++ b/docs/source/usage.rst
@@ -574,3 +574,13 @@ The mixin provides the following configuration options:
 - ``auditlog_history_template``: Template to use for rendering the history page (default: ``auditlog/object_history.html``)
 - ``auditlog_history_per_page``: Number of log entries to display per page (default: 10)
 
+.. versionadded:: 3.2.2
+
+Default: False
+
+Use ``AUDITLOG_EXCLUDE_REVERSE_RELATIONS`` to exclude reverse relation fields (auto-created fields
+where `field.auto_created is True` and `field.concrete is False`) when computing
+model diffs. This avoids accidental database queries for related objects and avoids
+mutating `instance._state.fields_cache` as a side-effect.
+
+Added to address: https://github.com/jazzband/django-auditlog/issues/551